A Day for Mrs. Brenda Thomas
Jun 10, 2021 12:00AM ● By By Seti Long
Mr. Wayne Thomas and family dressed in Brenda's favorite color, yellow, which is fitting since her own light shone so brightly and touched so many! Former GHS Leadership teacher and advisor's family pictured left to right: Ethan Okelberry, Wayne Thomas, Emily Whitacre, Kevin Okelberry (back) and Missy Okelberry. Photo by Seti Long
City Council Commemorates the Inspirational Life an Educator
GRIDLEY, CA (MPG) – After the sudden loss of former Gridley High School teacher Mrs. Brenda Thomas in April of this year, a massive outpouring of memories and tales of life-changing inspiration flooded Facebook pages and conversations.
In response, the City of Gridley and City Council found it necessary to recognize the inspirational woman for the impact she had on so many lives.
In a special City Council meeting held June 2nd, 2021, Councilwoman Catalina Sanchez presented a proclamation to the Thomas family declaring it Mrs. Brenda Thomas Day. Full of moving and poignant tributes to the integrity and exemplary nature of Mrs. Thomas, the proclamation is too long to include in its entirety. The following are excerpts from the proclamation that was read aloud to those in attendance:
“Whereas the City of Gridley commemorates and memorializes the life and contributions of Brenda Jan Shipley Thomas, a distinguished resident, whose public service and influence in our community merit distinct recognition, where her impact is insurmountable to the betterment of Gridley and Butte County…. And whereas Brenda Thomas was the embodiment of commitment to public service and serving individuals with dignity and love…. And whereas Brenda Thomas is a manifestation that one kind word or action, given in pure love, can change the course of someone’s entire life…. The City of Gridley has been made a better place by Brenda’s leadership, devotion, and commitment to community service. Now, therefore be it resolved by the City of Gridley, California, the City hereby proclaims June 2, 2021 as Mrs. Brenda Thomas Day.”
Taking the podium after the proclamation and receiving a beautifully framed artistic rendition of his wife and flowers, Mr. Thomas shared how “lucky we were to get her here.” He told the story of how the two made their way to Gridley, ultimately how his wife came to bless so many lives here and something heartbreakingly perfect about the day to be her day. Choking back tears, Mr. Thomas said, “Today is a great day for this. This is our 50th wedding anniversary today. I’d like to thank you for making this her day.”
The rest of the family, dressed in yellow, Mrs. Thomas’ favorite color, listened as more came forward with tales of how Mrs. Thomas inspired them and spoke themselves. Daughter Missy Okleberry said “There’s been so many people, we appreciate all of you, who have just helped us to honor her and helped us to really realize how special she was…. And how we all have a duty to really carry on her legacy…. to be inspired by her and to serve your community, serve your friends, reach out for people who are on the fringe….and show love or serve in some way.”
Mrs. Thomas’ spirit lives on and continues to inspire, even from beyond.